Veterinary Wellbeing Wisdom Tiny Bites - The Fine Art of Being Out of Control

Control of others isn’t possible. They may make you think you control them for a while, but you don’t. You don’t control their thoughts and you don’t control their feelings.

Just as you can’t make someone love you if they don’t love you, you can’t make someone admire you if they don’t admire you. You might be able to boss them around, and that will cause them to feel resentment, not positive feelings towards you.

Maybe your parents were heavy-handed in trying to control you – remember how that made you feel? Please don’t make others feel that way about you, too.

When you’re leading a staff, lead with your heart. Help them be their own best selves, not reflections of who you want them to be. They’ll love you for it.

Hey, maybe you CAN control others. 

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